Today as I was “Hardly” Working a light bulb went off in this amazing mind of mine … I realized that I am a chaser and it can be very unattractive to those I am in pursuit of. See, I was raised to be determined and go after what I wanted with a vigorous spirit and never hold back. Yet, here I sit home and alone, no one to call my own or even call sometimes. My newest approach is to allow everything to flow easily and gently, then I can see who really wants me. I hope that when I break the news to my dips they will understand and put some more effort in. HOPE being the key word because it seems like I am always attracted to the egotistical self-centered all about them type, but maybe they will take the time needed to keep me around!